Trust Your Wedding Planner
Today I had the pleasure of meeting with a couple who traveled from Las Vegas. They are getting married in a few months and wanted to finalize some things. We had gone over some details and they asked me some great questions. Half way through, the groom looked at me and asked, “well, you have been planning weddings for awhile, so we trust your opinion.” These are honestly the best words I can hear from a couple!
I do enjoy it when the couple adds their own special touch. But, when half of the wedding guests have assigned seats, the wedding party has to start walking at exactly 20 seconds into a song, or there are 20 Pinterest photo examples the couple wants, this might not be the type of wedding planning we do. I like to keep things easy. I actually had a bride tell me that she wanted her wedding to be casual and fun. I think these are also good words that describe what we do. Trust Your Wedding Planner!
I need there to be a level of trust. So, trust that I’ve seen a lot of weddings and know what is best for the couple.
So here are a few “trust me” things:
- Trust me, your bouquet will be beautiful! Our florists have experience in floral design and know their flowers. We’ve had brides cry when they got their bouquet. And, you don’t need to see the flowers ahead of time.
- Trust me, Pinterest doesn’t have all the answers. Just because you saw a photo on there of a wedding, doesn’t mean yours will look like that wedding. And really, do you want to copy someone else’s wedding? You can do a similar look or tell us what you love about the Pinterest inspiration photo, but try to do something unique to you.
- Trust me, sneaking away to do photos of just the two of you are way better than having the guests watching you take pictures hugging, holding and kissing.
- Trust me, feel like a celebrity! This is your day and do things that make you feel extra special – get your hair done, and make up done, order room service for breakfast, and let people take a ton of photos of you.
- Trust me, plan to be early or right on time . The worst thing is to stress about all you have to do on your wedding day. If you are running late this adds extra stress and might make your fiancé think you don’t want to go through with the wedding plans. But really, the guests are all waiting, our staff is waiting and you may have less time for photos. It’s important to be on time or even a little early.
- Trust me, let us handle the photos. We know lightning and backdrops. If there is a pose or 2 you love then send that over. But, most of the time, we’ve seen couples show us pages of pictures they like and it’s not always the best to copy that photo. Again, be original to who you are and let us capture your special day your day!
We’ve done a lot of weddings and are happy to give you wedding day advice. Trust your wedding planner
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Here’s why you should have a small wedding in Pismo Beach Small weddings are the way to go these days! We aren’t just saying that because small weddings have been our thing since we started our business back in 2015. A small wedding can have the same parts of a large wedding - unforgettable moments, celebration with friends and family and the start of the rest of your life together. But, small wedding have a few more benefits like - less stress, less more, and more of the two of you and what you want for your wedding! We love the scenery of the Central Coast for small weddings. There are million dollar views - from your toes in the sand at one of the beach locations, to overlooking the ocean, to shaded eucalyptus trees, and jagged cliff sides. Small weddings are our favorite because the couple is free to focus on the most important things, like having their day, their way, spending the day with the people who truly matter, and having an amazing day packed with lasting memories. What Is Driving the Trend Toward Smaller Weddings? Several factors are behind the increasing trend of smaller weddings. Modern couples are redefining what it means to celebrate love, and in most cases, they focus on quality over quantity. Small weddings have become for popular and couples embrace fewer guests and find the beauty of intimate gatherings. Changing societal norms and the desire for unique, personalized experiences also make smaller weddings an attractive option. How Do Small Weddings Create More Meaningful Connections? Small weddings foster more meaningful connections by allowing couples to spend quality time with each guest, creating an intimate and personal atmosphere. With fewer attendees, conversations feel more genuine, and guests feel truly valued and appreciated. Some couples will have a few day long celebration for their wedding - starting a few days before the wedding with wine tasting or seeing the sites of the Central Coast, then relax on the beach the next day. After some fun in the sun, it's wedding day. The day will end with a group dinner or casual private reception. Then, the guests will leave and the couple has a few more days to celebrate their honeymoon in Pismo Beach or other beach location. This setting also encourages deeper interactions, making it easier to share special moments, heartfelt toasts, and personal stories. Without the hustle and chaos of a large event, couples and their loved ones can be fully present, strengthening bonds and making the celebration even more memorable. How Does a Smaller Guest List Reduce Wedding Stress? Planning a wedding can be quite challenging. It is easier for couples to plan their weddings with smaller guest lists, as this dramatically lowers their prospects of worrying. Incorporating fewer guests into a wedding means that there are fewer logistical elements to take care of, such as catering, seating arrangements, accommodations, and more people to please. This way, couples can spend more time and energy making their special day more unique instead of fretting over accommodating numerous people. A more personal gathering helps create a homely and calming vibe, giving the couple a chance to make the most of each interaction with their guests. Most importantly, a smaller guest number means that there would be fewer changes needed at the last minute, which translates to lower expenditure and costs. Hence, all attendees, coupled with the couple, can fully enjoy themselves without feeling the pressure of the wedding arrangements. What Are the Financial Benefits of Hosting a Small Wedding? Hosting a small wedding can be a cost-effective choice, offering couples the chance to allocate their budget more intentionally. With fewer guests, expenses for catering, venue size, and decor are reduced, freeing up funds for other priorities such as an unforgettable honeymoon or investing in a dream home. This financial flexibility allows couples to create a celebration that reflects their values and vision without overspending. Celebrate your love story with us! Small weddings are more than just a trend—they represent a shift in how couples approach one of the most important days of their lives. By focusing on intimacy, meaningful connections, and thoughtful planning, small weddings offer a unique and heartfelt way to celebrate love. For couples looking to create a stunning and intimate wedding experience, Coastal California Weddings is your simple and stress-free way to plan your wedding. We provide expert guidance and inspiration.
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